Dear brothers and sisters of planet Earth! I AM ROWENA!

At this moment, there is not much more to say, not much more to teach each one of you. But I can only remind you that the most important thing in the entire process of ascension for each one of you is to live Love.

To live Love in its fullest form, Unconditional Love. The one that is so difficult for you. In Unconditional Love, there is no attachment, no demands, no impositions, no jealousy, no low vibration feelings. You love, and you just love. The other is free. The other is not yours, does not belong to you, does not owe you obedience. The other, I repeat, is free.

What pleasure is there in keeping someone by your side who does not love you? Just on a whim, for society, or because you do not want to admit that it did not work out? Are you happy? Is the other person happy? And then I take the opportunity to ask, what does it mean to make someone else happy?

Happiness must come from you first. When you are at peace with yourself, when you are elevated, you are happy, and everyone around you will notice this. Others will be happy if they are meant to be happy. It is not you who will make them happy.

Everyone needs to seek their own path. Everyone needs to find happiness within themselves, not in others. No one is happy because of anyone else. ‘Ah, but being with others makes me happy!’ Very well! Because you have found harmony between yourself and them. It is not them that make you happy. You are at peace with yourself. So you feel happy and believe that it is the presence of others that makes you feel that way.

Here’s what I can say: the other person’s presence brought you joy; you feel good, but you were able to find that joy because you are capable of it, unlike some people who can only find joy in the presence of others. So, understand this: no one brings you happiness.

Happiness, joy, and harmony are found within you, through a relationship of respect, trust, love, and serenity. Together, you have found harmony. But it was not the other person who made you feel this way. You found this harmony.

It may be complex to understand. And many will not understand. But I repeat: the other person brings you nothing. It is you who must find the path, within yourself, never in the other person. Because when you place your expectations of happiness on the other person, you demand, you beg, you plead, you bargain, to have that happiness. And this is not Love. This was a feeling that you learned to use and say it was Love.

My brothers, loving is so simple. Loving unconditionally is so simple, so light, so beautiful. Because all the Love you feel is concentrated in you. Then you light up, you rise. Then you may ask me, ‘But isn’t that selfish?’ Of course not. Because you love the other person. However, if you love unconditionally, that other person does not affect you at all, because you find your own path, your own balance, your own happiness, regardless of the other person.

The other person will be there, by your side, but they will not be the one who makes you happy. It will be the harmony of the relationship you have created. Understand this. No one makes anyone else happy. It is you who makes yourself pleased by the way you have that relationship, by what you have created together with the other person. But who created all this? It was you.

Yes, the other person has contributed to this. However, consider this: would all the happiness you are experiencing with this person disappear if they were to leave? If so, it is not love. You are experiencing something based on the other person. You did not create it within yourself. If it were love, you would understand their choice and follow yours.

No one is to blame. No one is bad. No one is evil. It’s interesting how I see in many relationships that when one person leaves, they take the blame for everything. He was the bad one, he was the evil one, he was this, he was that, or she was this, she was that. They take the blame for everything.

However, you, the one who stays, are a saint. You never provoked anything; you never did anything to make that situation reach that point. You are the poor thing. Isn’t that so? Then I tell you, the one who left dared to break something that was not good for them. They thought of themselves. Then you may say to me: ‘Exactly, they are selfish, they only thought of themselves!’ But that’s how it has to be.

Everyone needs to seek their own happiness; the path to happiness. It’s not about being tied to someone out of pity or consideration. The relationship has to be easygoing; it has to be lived by both, not only one. And lived for as long as it lasts. There’s no set time limit. There are no prisons.

God the Father/Mother did not demand that anyone suffer alongside anyone else. God the Father/Mother wants every child to be happy. It does not matter how, it does not matter in what way. Understand this. God the Father/Mother did not bind anyone to anyone else. These bonds must be broken. You are all free.

Every being is free. No one is tied to anyone else, nor can they be. This was created for several reasons that I cannot comment on here. The important thing is to live in the moment of a relationship. It is to create a relationship that is good for both, with the same intensity. Because if the balance tilts to one side, it is not good. Someone is not happy there.

Both need to experience the same feeling, but each one thinking of themselves, living that moment, in the here and now. Tomorrow does not matter.

Yes, my brothers and sisters, many of you are being led to detach yourselves from your partners. And why? Because the time has come for you to love yourselves and be happy with yourselves, not with each other. This lesson is the most important one: to find happiness, peace, and harmony within yourselves, not in each other.

The day you achieve this, your relationships will be much better. And what’s more, they will last much longer. Because there will be respect. There will be no demands on either side. This applies to any relationship. Relationships are between souls, because when they are between bodies, they don’t work. They tend to end quickly, because neither person loves the other. They are only seeing the ephemeral pleasure, not Love itself.

So, in this current time, what is important? It is for you to seek within yourself your happiness, your balance, your harmony. Because when you find that, you will attract someone who does the same. And then you will have a light, full, intense relationship, almost living in unconditional love.

And why almost? Because you still have a lot to learn.

For today’s Code of Light, I leave you with the following phrases:

“I am a free soul.

I am a free human being.

And above all, I love myself.

And by loving myself, I am able to love others.”

After these sentences, say the following word: Amorântinum! Amorântinum! Amorântinum!

And seek, my brothers and sisters. It is not easy to live as I have explained here, but at least seek happiness within yourselves. Stop seeking it in others. Find the paths that will lead you to be happy on your own. I am not saying that everyone should break up. That is not it.

Because when you find happiness within yourself, you will be ready to live together with another, in a full and light Love. Without demands, without any kind of negative feelings. Because you love yourself first and foremost. It is you who makes yourself happy, not the other person.

This is the great lesson. Each of you is an isolated being. So learn to live this love for yourself, intensely. Then your relationships will become beautiful, very beautiful. And you will be truly happy.

Translated by I Arantesh.