My dear brothers and sisters of this beautiful planet! I AM ROWENA!

Today I bring with me the pink flame of Love. Visualize each one of you as a large pink crystal, but with a bright pink flame within. Take this crystal and place it in your heart. This flame will never extinguish, and it will vibrate according to your thoughts and vibrations. The higher your thoughts, the stronger it will become; the lower they are, the dimmer it will get, but it will never go out.

Do not be afraid to place it in your hearts.

Now is the time to nourish the flame of Love even more, the flame of this feeling that has been so corrupted, so distorted, so diminished from what it truly is, and what was created by God the Father/Mother. Love is not possession, it is not desire, it is not revenge, it is not anger, it is not hatred. “How can love be hatred?” The line between Love and hatred is very thin, and when someone who loves does not have their needs or desires fulfilled, the feeling turns into hatred. Is this Love? It is anything but Love. 

In fact, I have also lived on this planet and lived the feelings you experience today. After my ascension, I realized that I had never truly experienced true Love, that I had never lived unconditional Love. I always lived the Love that was taught to me, the Love that begs, that asks, that imposes, that trades, that suffers; that is not Love, it is any feeling but Love.

My brothers and sisters, saying “I love you” every moment, every minute is a phrase that loses its power because it becomes a habit, something you say just to please the other person because they need to hear it. But I ask you: Does this phrase always come with the context it represents? Does it always come from the depths of your heart? Does it always come as the true feeling it represents? I will tell you that most of the time it does not. You say it for the sake of saying it, to present yourself, and to please the other person, because at that moment, you don’t feel the desire to say it, but you say it because the other person expects to hear it.

And so you deceive yourselves, you believe in something that effectively doesn’t exist. No human being on this planet truly knows what it means to say: I love you. This phrase spoken by God the Father/Mother is perfect because He loves all His children, regardless of who they are, how they are, or their behaviors. This is the true phrase, this is the true goal, to love unconditionally. But you still don’t know how to love like that. 

But I’m not saying all this so that you lose hope and the will to change, on the contrary, it’s so that you stop fooling yourselves, it’s so that you stop bargaining Love. Love cannot be traded, Love is only meant to be felt, and it doesn’t matter if it’s reciprocated or not. If you feel that Love is yours, if it’s not reciprocated, don’t ask for anything in return, you are experiencing this Love because you chose to; don’t blame the other, don’t demand from the other.

Teach your children to love unconditionally, to love everyone, to love the closest friends, to love the friends who bother them, because they don’t know what Love is. So, they simply resort to inappropriate actions to show their existence. There are no ill-mannered children, there are no mischievous children, there are no rude children, there are children without Love. But there exists the pure Love of father and mother.

Forgive me, mothers and fathers who don’t agree with what I’m saying, but surely one day you will learn that you didn’t love your children as they deserved to be loved, and that’s why they are who they are. Any calm, peaceful child receives Love, receives peace and harmony, anything else is not what they receive. So they simply demonstrate what they are receiving, what they see.

But I’m not here to judge the relationship between parents and children, I’m here to show you what Love truly is, and surely you are still far from experiencing unconditional Love because you still judge, you criticize, you look at those who don’t please you with judgmental eyes, you condemn those who don’t follow the rules, you condemn those who don’t act as you wish. So how can you claim to live unconditional Love?

To live unconditional Love is not to live it 1% of the day, but to live it 100% of the day. Then you can always say: I am walking towards experiencing unconditional Love. This is the truth; you are being guided and seeking this Love, but none of you are living it yet. Don’t let your egos tell you that I am wrong. None of you are yet living unconditional Love. Look at your actions, and you will realize that at every moment, you still engage in those behaviors that are not compatible with unconditional Love.

But this is not a reason for you to be discouraged; on the contrary, it is a reason for you to seek to live it more and more, to correct yourselves, to strive to act within its laws. It’s like an athlete; they have a goal, no matter what kind of sport, they have a goal. And they train, train, train every day to reach that goal. Then they compete and lose. Someone surpasses their goal. Do they give up? No, on the contrary, it gives them even more determination to surpass the other person, and they keep persisting, keep insisting, to reach a new goal. I’m not here to judge overcoming and competition; I’m giving an example.

So, don’t be upset because I’m saying that you don’t yet live unconditional Love. I’m just warning you that you still need to improve a lot before you can open your mouths and say that you live unconditional Love. Like I said, living it 1% is not truly living it. You need to reach 100%. “Oh, but will we be able to reach 100%?” Maybe not, but I would say that there is a minimum percentage you need to achieve in order to evolve, and surely it’s not the percentage you have today.

Pay attention to your feelings, pay attention to your customs and habits. Speaking just for the sake of speaking is empty words. Everything has to be said from the depths of the heart. It’s as if the mouth is no longer in the head but in the middle of the chest, and when you say, “I love you,” it would come from deep within the heart, not from your head.

The day you feel that this phrase comes from deep within your chest, then you can affirm: “I am living unconditional Love because I said it from the heart, I said it with much Love.” And you will learn to use the mouth of the heart, not the mouth of the head.

It may sound funny, but it’s not. The heart speaks, and if you let it speak, you have no idea how much you would improve your lives because as long as the mind is in control, unconditional Love drifts further away. So let the heart speak, let it shout, and when that happens, remember that I said: You are living unconditional Love.

Translated by: Paula Prado